Is that who you want to be?

August 18, 2008 — 1 Comment

In a conversation with a friend, someone I’ve never liked much came up and before I could verbalize that, they proceeded to tell me something very nice that person had said about me. Here was someone I’ve never liked, a fact that’s always colored my interaction with them, treating me with respect I couldn’t even afford to them.

We both faced the same situation: I went one way, he went the other. But which path, if you cut away, would you prefer people to assume you took?

If we had no faults, we should not take so much pleasure in noting those of others.de la Rochefoucauld

Ryan Holiday

I'm a strategist for bestselling authors and billion dollar brands like American Apparel, Tucker Max and Robert Greene. My work has been used as case studies by Twitter, YouTube and Google and has been written about in AdAge, the New York Times, Gawker and Fast Company.

One response to Is that who you want to be?

  1. I guess in the end, i would treat them with the same respect. Granted, i never really liked the person, but im not going to be rude.

    Tasha

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